One thing that annoys me about girls, is the way they talk publically like absolute whores just to catch the attention of the opposite sex. It conforms to every sexist theory that women are only good for cooking, cleaning, and sex.
Years ago, women put their reputation, their pride, and their beliefs on a line to fight for us to be equal to men. To get equal wages. To work in the same work places as them. To mean something. They didn't go through all of that for women to dress without pride, displaying every inch of flesh possible without being arrested for indecent exposure. To see them talking like some kind of unpaid sex operator to anyone that shows them the slightest attention. For them to shed any ounce of shame, and to degrade themself in an attempt to be noticed, just to feel good about themselves.
So to those girls . . .
Use your intelligence, your intellect, your passions for life to speak for you. If you have the most amazing set of legs and want to show them off, do so. But cover up everything else. Less is more, and you can bare all, and for one night he might want you. But after that, he's had you. There's no expectation, there's nothing left to imagine, to lust . . . he tried before he even though of buying.
Being able to hold down a conversation is far more attractive than being an exhibitionist. I'm not saying you should adapt to life of a nun, or become a prude. Send him filthy texts, flirt your arse off, but make him want you. Seduce him with your personality. With how interesting you are. With your views, and beliefs. If you don't agree with him, say so.
Don't let your body do the speaking for you.
Years ago, women put their reputation, their pride, and their beliefs on a line to fight for us to be equal to men. To get equal wages. To work in the same work places as them. To mean something. They didn't go through all of that for women to dress without pride, displaying every inch of flesh possible without being arrested for indecent exposure. To see them talking like some kind of unpaid sex operator to anyone that shows them the slightest attention. For them to shed any ounce of shame, and to degrade themself in an attempt to be noticed, just to feel good about themselves.
So to those girls . . .
Use your intelligence, your intellect, your passions for life to speak for you. If you have the most amazing set of legs and want to show them off, do so. But cover up everything else. Less is more, and you can bare all, and for one night he might want you. But after that, he's had you. There's no expectation, there's nothing left to imagine, to lust . . . he tried before he even though of buying.
Being able to hold down a conversation is far more attractive than being an exhibitionist. I'm not saying you should adapt to life of a nun, or become a prude. Send him filthy texts, flirt your arse off, but make him want you. Seduce him with your personality. With how interesting you are. With your views, and beliefs. If you don't agree with him, say so.
Don't let your body do the speaking for you.
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